What are life skills?
Life skills include a broad range of skills like focus,communicating,making connections,taking on challenges,self control,learning,critical thinking etc. which makes you get most out of life. For say,you are challenged with a job task and a particular deadline and for appreciable time you are just thinking how you will complete and a peer dear colleague of yours smiles,take it easy ,concentrating and thus completing the task efficiently. How would you compare yourself to your peer dear colleague now?
Ahh,so that is where life skills work,it is not that you have less calibre or potential..it's just that you lagged behind because of life skills.
Are you working on yourself?
Now,here comes a challenging question for you..this is an easy one ..So,`Are you working on yourself?..Now stop giggling if you are,we are so used to giving judgement about others and working on them to improve or change them (Forgetting,we should first change ourselves)..that working on your own self demands a hefty excuse of big `No time'.
Believe me,when you will start to change and improve yourself,life will seem light,crazy and hell interesting.
So,What does working on yourself means?
It simply means in improving your life skills.Well,i am not telling you hone all your life skills in a day,give yourself time..working on priority basis and the issues at which you think lag behind because of your life skills.
Thinking out of box-let things get sort by life skills management
Do you sometimes feel,if this wouldn't have happened or if this would have happened,life would have been different.Well before taking things that way,do you realize that there were some life skills which you lacked or didn't show up when they were highly needed.
Life is such an awesome challenging pleasure and it keeps that vitality because it never fails to make us learn at each step.
So,here's your first step in life skill management-
`That is to keep learning from every situation-whether good or bad'.
To learn is the key in honing up your life skills.
Let's unlock other jammed locks of life skills with other keys!
The first key is learning..and the other keys which are as important in order to make your life skill management proper and efficacious are as follows-
Determination and will power
You cannot bring a change or fight situations if you rank low on determination and will power.So gear up your soul for strong head .
Get out of comfort zone
Challenge yourself and just get going for challenges without fearing.
Build some patience
So,with regular gyming and jogging schedule(Because i go for regular jogs :P) ,it is important to build patience along with strength,stamina and muscles.
Respect time
Habit of postponing things? Umm,respect time and just start working asap on yourself ,instead of thinking.
Focus and Act
`Strike while the iron is hot' is a perfect axiom for facing any situation.But face any situation bravely by focusing and contemplating and then start acting.
Be confident
Confidence speaks for your personality and so is the reflection of acts which are your life skills.Enlighten it all.!!
So,when are you starting to unlock jammed locks of life skills? Looking forward to read your journey to life skills management.
Don't forget to smile๐ ...A big smile is a life skill too..
Keep smiling ..Cheers๐๐
really good...๐
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